First time mother in a bad situation

by Danielle
(Raleigh NC )

I'm asking for prayer for strength, guidance,and a peace of mind. I'm a first time mother, living with the farther of my child. I don't have family, friends to depend on. I'm not happy in my relationship. But,I feel as if I'm stuck with no where to go, no one to turn too! I don't have anything of my own, and it's a little overwhelming at times, that leads to depression /stress.


I'm currently pregnant praying all goes well with labor. And praying that i can get out of this situation and provide a better life for me and my unborn child.

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Prayes
by: Anonymous

I hope god hears this prayer . I pray that you have an opportunity to make it on your own. I hope that whatever situation you are in does not involve abuse, infelidelty , or anything of that nature. I pray that you find true happiness and can support your child and yourself.

It shall be well
by: Anonymous

I pray that all goes well. Be grateful that you do have a partner, some are facing all this alone. Do no lose faith put God first he will be with you as you deliver and i pray that you build a happy home with your partner and baby. God will not forsake you my dear. All the best xxx

Peace be with you
by: Anonymous

I pray that all goes well and please pray for your other half for god to touch him. Its hard being alone . i pray for your strength and safe delivery.

mother situation
by: Anonymous

All I can say is pray to the Lord and ask him for guidance out of that kind of situation, because it's not healthy for you or the unborn child. Because as long as you got God you got everything everything.








I pray for you and I to can relate
by: Anonymous

I could not bare to read about your situation. I have nofriendsor family and have also been in your shoes. It took 13years for me to be brave and I finally did it but i now have children with many issues because of it. I blame myself for not getting out early on. There's nothing i can do and there are no words to fix what mental damage was done to my children. Find a way because that's temporary but your child's life and emotions are not as temporary. I didn't think my situation was "that bad". I now have photos of my children from before when you can actually see when they lost that spirit in their eyes. Best of luck. Keep praying

Give it to GOD
by: tj

I pray you see the light and that you and your child are safe. God bless

been through it
by: Anonymous

Just keep praying and continue to have faith ask God to keep you anointed.make sure you eat healthy 6 and drink plenty of water.get some Omega 3 pills this will help the baby's brain development as well as His nervous system from stress. I been there and from the stress my son has a learning disability.and his dad still don't care.I will pray for you. May God protect you and your baby in the blood of Jesus amen

Been there and know things can change
by: Anonymous

Danielle,
I've been there myself also. Single mom but on my own. Have no idea if you work or not. I was working but at a minimum wage paying job. God opened a door for me to go onto another job with much better pay, and better insurance benefits.
My situation changed when I started attending a different church that was supportive of my situation. They gave me strength, they gave me love, they showed me that God indeed can change things. First of all, YOU have to want to change. Second, YOU have to say "I want better for myself and my child." Even if it mean leaving the father of the child. I never married the father of my child and I thank God for that.
Honey, pray to God with honesty and from the heart. Keep praying every moment you feel discouraged or that there is no hope, for I tell you there is hope and that hope is in our Lord and Savor. Like one already said there are people and places in authority to help get you help. Check with a woman's shelter if need be. My favorite verse says: ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find, knock and the door shall be opened.
Dear Lord, I lift up Danielle to you. I ask that you hear her heart, you provide for her what she needs. Help her to get on her own two feet. Don't allow her to feel she has to stay with this man, provide for her a way out. Lead her to those that can help her and this precious little one inside of her. Lord, give her strength and wisdom to do what you have planned for her, may it be your will not her lack of understanding on how to handle this situation. Lord, you have been so gracious to help me when I was in this situation and you lead me to a much better life, Lord, I ask of you that you guide her like you did me. Give her patience, strength and understanding while you lead her to what you have planned for her and this child, to be. Lord, keep them safe, keep them healthy and maybe open the door for her to go back to family and friends, provide a way for her Lord. You said, Love, Joy and Peace, which of these is the greatest? LOVE, may the love for her from family and friends outweigh the situation and they welcome her back home Keep her in your loving arms, send your angels in charge over them and protect them. I ask all this in Jesus' precious name, Amen!
Lord, I want to thank You for providing this website for her to be able to reach out for prayer from others whom may not even know her but have the love for her anyways, enough to lift up heartfelt prayer for her.
Lord may someone that sees this website live close enough to her right now to reach out to her and help find her a safe place to be. Amen.

i feel ure pain
by: Anonymous

Im going through same thing. Got no friends or family either and it can be very lonely. Remember u r not alone. Be strong for ure unborn child who will love and depend on u for everything. To your child, you will be their whole world and sometimes only love can get you through the darkest days.

God's unchanging hand
by: LaQuan

Danielle,

I have been where you are its difficult for others to understand unless they have experienced it. So, having been where you are let me tell you 1 you are not alone as long as you continue to be present in the Lord & talk to him daily. 2 you have to make a list of things that make you happy tuck it away in your bible in Jer. 29:11 & read that scripture. 3 you have to tap into the resources in the area ie DSS, WIC, Housing Authority etc. Those things are there to help you just don't become dependent upon them. Use them for the stepping stone they were intended to be. You must also reach out to some support places here we have the Women's Resource Center and they provide resources necessary to help you to move beyond bad relationships and put you in contact with the right organizations. Please look into that also. Please allow me to pray with you at this time.

Dear heavenly father,
I come to you as humbled as I know how on behalf of my sister Danielle. God you know the circumstances she is facing better than anyone. I just ask that you step in and provide a peace and calm in this storm. God please give my sister the strength to move beyond her current situation and see the climate change. And to understand that this won't last always. That she may be weeping now but her joy WILL come in the morning. God give us the village a healthy happy baby God. Don't allow depression and anxiety and doubt bring this young lady down for you know the plans you have for her life God. In Jesus name Amen!

Love you sister be strong for you are already blessed and walking into your destiny.

God's unchanging hand
by: LaQuan

Danielle,

I have been where you are its difficult for others to understand unless they have experienced it. So, having been where you are let me tell you 1 you are not alone as long as you continue to be present in the Lord & talk to him daily. 2 you have to make a list of things that make you happy tuck it away in your bible in Jer. 29:11 & read that scripture. 3 you have to tap into the resources in the area ie DSS, WIC, Housing Authority etc. Those things are there to help you just don't become dependent upon them. Use them for the stepping stone they were intended to be. You must also reach out to some support places here we have the Women's Resource Center and they provide resources necessary to help you to move beyond bad relationships and put you in contact with the right organizations. Please look into that also. Please allow me to pray with you at this time.

Dear heavenly father,
I come to you as humbled as I know how on behalf of my sister Danielle. God you know the circumstances she is facing better than anyone. I just ask that you step in and provide a peace and calm in this storm. God please give my sister the strength to move beyond her current situation and see the climate change. And to understand that this won't last always. That she may be weeping now but her joy WILL come in the morning. God give us the village a healthy happy baby God. Don't allow depression and anxiety and doubt bring this young lady down for you know the plans you have for her life God. In Jesus name Amen!

Love you sister be strong for you are already blessed and walking into your destiny.

Praying
by: Anonymous

If you are being abused this person please please let someone in a position to of authority know and make sure you protect yourself and your child. If that is what you mean by bad. If you just mean that you don't get along or that you don't feel this is the right person I believe God has a different plan.
God's desire is for families to be together, you do not say you are married maybe you are but never the less, a commitment has been made in that you share a child's life. Submit yourself wholly to God through faith in his son Jesus Christ. He will grant you new life and new hope He will remove fear and depression. Find a church talk to a Christian counsellor or pastor. You will also benefit from spending time with other believing Christians in fellowship. Some of the help you need may come from this avenue of support. Perhaps your husband also needs to commit to God and surrender to Jesus Christ in repentance and humility. If you make the first move and ask God to strengthen you to love this man like Jesus loves him, who knows he may also turn to God for peace and joy and freedom. Because I do not know your exact situation I cannot really advise you to stay or leave. But God knows and he wants you to know that He loves you and wants you safe, the baby safe and free from oppression and depression so I will pray.
Dear Heavenly Father Shine the light of your truth wisdom and grace on this family where adjustments need to be made I pray you will open the right doors so this may happen. Bring the correct kind of support to this new mom and reassure her that she will be ok. If she is depressed because she is ill I pray that she will get the medical help that she needs to see a complete healing. We know you watch us all and also over this unborn child and you know who they are Psalm 139. Bring hope peace and true love into this dark situation I pray in Jesus Awesome Name. AMEN

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