Prayer for my husband/pastor struggling with adultery

by Tare
(Tyler Texas )

Please pray for my husband who is also my pastor he has had struggles with this thru out our marriage. I have been praying for him but he seem to have closed his eyes to the truth of GODs word, it's hard for me to support him at church when I know what he is doing.

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he has been seeing this woman for sometime now I found out about it when I called his job he told me he had to work and he lied about it it is getting hard for me to attend church on Sundays but am trying to stay put and move when GOD tells me to.

I believe that is giving him time to turn from his wicked ways before he steps in so please pray for me that am doing what GOD would want me to do. Also please pray for my husband.

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God will make a way
by: Annie

Heavenly father I come before you bringing this husband/pastor before you who is struggling with adultry, father please anoint him from the crown of his head to the soal of his feet and help him to resist the temptations, help him to realize that he cannot enter your kingdom by preaching the word and not living by it O Lord I pray that give his wife victory over this situation for father I know how dificult a home can be when its divided. Father please give his wife the strength and courage to speak out openly about the situation and seek counseling for her husband. for the bible says in 1 Corinthians 11:3 - But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God. Father tahnk you for all that you are about to do for this family in Jesus Name Amen.

God will make a way
by: Anonymous

Heavenly father I come before you bringing this husband/pastor before you who is struggling with adultry, father please anoint him from the crown of his head to the soal of his feet and help him to resist the temptations, help him to realize that he cannot enter your kingdom by preaching the word and not living by it O Lord I pray that give his wife victory over this situation for father I know how dificult a home can be when its divided. Father please give his wife the strength and courage to speak out openly about the situation and seek counseling for her husband. for the bible says in 1 Corinthians 11:3 - But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God. Father tahnk you for all that you are about to do for this family in Jesus Name Amen.

Still praying
by: Anonymous

Just have say I am still praying for you. I hope there has been some movement seen in your circumstance. My hope is that the sin has come to light and the burden of carrying it is not yours alone anymore. If the church leadership has not stepped up to support you and establish boundaries for your husband encouraging him to repent and receive the spiritual counsel he needs you may need to find another fellowship so that you will be fed and supported spiritually. Let the chips fall where they may. If husband remains unrepentant I cannot tell you what to do. If it is in your heart and God leads you, leave him even if just for a time, Find where your support lies first in God second in mature compassionate Christian counselling and family. May you feel the arms of God's love surround you every step of the way. Do not lose hope.
Hope for strength in this trial, hope for your husband's repentance and restoration to true faith and hope for your marriage to be resurrected. Here is a very meaningful scripture to me as I am also standing and interceding for a spouse who has chosen the path of sin and has left to be with another even though he has been a believing Christian for many years.
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13 Jan

Prayer for husband
by: Anonymous

May God guide you and let your husband get truly saved.



I'm going through a similar situation and I'm lost


Adultrey
by: Anonymous

My husband is also sinning against me. I know how horrible it feels. I will pray for you and your husband. No one is out of satans reach. God Bless!

My prayers
by: Kayla

My prayers are with you and all your family god bless you x

Your struggling husband and pastor
by: Anonymous

Please realize you are not alone, in my first marriage I had a wife who cheated in our marriage several times. I forgave time after time , I had friends who couldn't understand my thinking. I was a new believer in The Lord and was really trying to let him carry my burden. She was actually the one who helped me learn about salvation. I felt Gods presence very strong in my life, I had never felt the Holy Spirit before, so I continued to trust in him for guidance. Finally after a few years, God's presence in prayer one night told me it's done, he said leave she is my concern now. That was all it took, I was done at that very point I never looked back and God has blessed me with an amazing wife of 19 years now!
I understand about patience, but please don't allow this behavior to continue, keep seeking the Lords will and he will show you when it's time, and believe me you will have no guilt for ending this marriage.
Continuing in prayer for you, God Bless!!

Wisdom needed
by: Jan

I will certainly pray that you find the wisdom and courage you need to deal with this horrible circumstance. I pray that the comfort of the Holy Spirit and His peace will guard your heart and keep you from bitterness toward God. This is such a big burden to carry. Has he spoken to you of this does he know you know.If he does and is continuing to sin anyway, I ask you to consider what you might do in a situation exactly the same (your pastor in adultery and you know it is true absolutely) but he is not your husband. Ask God what you would do in that situation would you have the same reservations of telling someone. I know it is hard to imagine it getting out but it isn't your fault. do not accept this kind of abuse from this man. He isn't protected from consequences of sin just because he is a pastor in fact the Bible says that judgement begins in the house of God. !Peter 4 There are pretty strong verses in the New Testament about having fellowship with people who do such things.(see my scripture reference below) It may be the wake up call he needs. even if it is just to go to someone in the church that you absolutely trust and know would want the best for your husband and for you. Let him know this is what you intend to do if you think it is safe to do so if not then maybe your husband could be confronted in private and offered a sabbatical to have counselling for the both of you. This situation is not healthy for the body of Christ. May God give you great courage and strength and may you feel him near you always..

1 Corinthians 5:9-11 states that

I have written you in my letter no to associate with sexually immoral people -- not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat.

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