Prayer for My Relationship

by Melissa ()

I am currently in a struggling relationship with a Christian man. Things were so great until he distanced himself and ceased communication after plans were made to have a discussion concerning temptation and boundaries. I found out that he has an avoidant attachment style and is very closed off and prone to stone walling. I know he desires to be married with children, but fears closeness and intimacy at the same time. His defensive distancing tactics are hurtful and difficult for me to weather. While he has an avoidant attachment style, I have an anxious attachment style that sends me to panic mode when communication patterns change and I tend to assume the worst. Please pray for our relationship in a way that you feel called to do so. I need help healing my abandonment issues from childhood trauma and a nasty divorce. I do not know what makes him fearful-avoidant, but his heart needs healing as well. We need help loving each other through our imperfections. It’s my hope that we are able to reconcile and open our hearts and minds to God’s word and each other to have a loving and God honoring relationship.

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