Prayer for the marriage that died a thousands times

by SarahKate
(New England)

We are seperated have been for over a year, but every few months we try again After a few months we are back to being separated.His kids with him, my kid with me.We just foreclosed on the marriage home and I have been living in a small apt. He tells me what he doesn't like about me and I of course ask and wonder why he thinks I'm not a good person.So in turn I give it back. He says he loves me its why he tells me that I'm not a good person. I say why are you with me, he says he loves me. How is that possible? However,God's words on divorce scare the both of us. Are we only staying together because God says we have too to get into heaven, and so Jesus suffered so should we here on earth so we can be in Heaven were no more suffering will ever be.? We have gotten to the point where counseling didn't help and no matter what beautiful tattoo or jewelry is given it just doesn't change.


I don't know where else to turn. I have prayed a thousand prayers to help me and this family. We forgive the other over and over for our errors and for being human I hold on to stuff and he does too we both put it out there when it's convenient to hurt the other. He always leaves with my step daughter who l love to tears and separates us as she can take his side in the situation. I thought God really did want us to stay together; as last year God took my step daughters mom to heaven and that same year 6 months earlier my son's father left us too. I don't know how to pray anymore about this I just cry out for help and I don't know what type of help I want.

My husband has been sober for 2 years and attends AA regularly. I have autoimmune conditions that keeps me from working and so I have been on disability since 2012. I put all my care into keeping a clean home and clean kids. I try the best I can with what I am able which somedays isn't a lot he brings me more stress than any of the kids do, then I'm exhausted and out flat for days. I work real hard at being a great stay at home mom. The only kid I seem to be dealing with regularly is my husband. We have been married almost 10 years this Fall. I don't know what to do anymore. Please help us find the answers the]at God places on our hearts. In Jesus name I pray.. Amen

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Oct 06, 2014
He is truly trust worthy NEW
by: Mccart

I am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for over 9 years and we have two kids. thing were going well with us and we where always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treated me and the kids. later that month he did not come back home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he casted on him that make him come back to me. my family and i are now happy again. Thank you Dr. Aluta for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

Jul 28, 2014
how to forgive NEW
by: johannes

The Bible commands us to forgive as Christians. The problem comes when we are hurt and we close the other party outside. In the case of a husband and a wife it becomes even more difficult because u live with the person everyday. The Bible has solution for everything. The problem with married couples is that they tend to focus more on themselves rather than on God.
We must realise that the people we are married to are not perfect and they have lots of baggages in their lives. If your relationship with God is deeper, u will forgive easily. The only way u can forgive is when u take your focus and attention from off your spouse into God. It doesnt matter who is wrong, unforgiveness is a killer disease. Every challenge and problem reveals how strong u are in God.

I used to have a problem with my wife concerning sexual matters. She was always giving me excuse when were supposed to meet. I was angry and even took the matter to the Church but still there was no solution
Finally...I realised that my focus is on my patner and not on God. I took a decision to concentrate on God and forgive her. I treated her well regardless of her actions and I started praying for her. The more I did that, the more she started to change for the better. OUR CONCENTRATION AND FOCUS SHOULD BE ON GOD AND NOT ON OUR SPOUSE, OTHERWISE WE ARE HEADING FOR A DISASTER.

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